He told Andy Cohen and fellow guest Shania Twain: 'We were constantly professional to be honest and we should both pat ourselves on the back because anything is complicated in that way...

It looks like life is imitating art for Blake Lively and Penn Badgley.

The two of them were seen shopping for candles together just last week in New York, and are determined to stay good friends.'It didn’t seem like anything was off at all and no one said anything,' a source from the Gossip Girl set tells People magazine.

ELLE: What did the end of that relationship teach you? Is there a Jeff Buckley lyric that gets love right? The lyrics to "Lover, You Should've Come Over": "Sometimes a man gets carried away/ When it feels like he should be having his fun/ Much too blind to see the damage he's done."ELLE: Why do those lyrics resonate? ELLE: You're dating Zoe Kravitz—Lenny Kravitz's daughter.

There's a reason the French call the moment of orgasm , "the little death." No matter how good the moment was, the moment after is always revealing. It was just shitty fluorescent lights and a small stage piano, but this band tore it up.

I mean, like anything valuable, it was good and it was bad and it was a learning experience."Badgley - who admitted that he didn't send Lively a wedding gift when she married Ryan Reynolds - explained that he would like to get married one day because he wants the "ceremony" and the "bond".

character Dan."But the kind of women I'm interested in - they're smart enough not to expect me to be Dan," he continued.

I mean, like anything valuable, it was good and it was bad and it was a learning experience.

I didn't start to understand my own appeal to women until later. Our relationship was a part of that and helped us through it. That song is basically saying, whatever happens, I still love you and want you, even if that's impossible. There's a reason the French call the moment of orgasm 'la petite mort', 'the little death'.is when we first met," he said, "and we were friends—very close friends."So is Penn still in touch with Amanda today? "In fact, they probably didn't watch the show."Badgley, who is currently dating Zoe Kravitz, also suggested that he's no longer interested in taking advantage of his fame to seduce women."I've had some fun nights," he said."But I learned early on that that stuff is never satisfying in the end.After they split, though, their characters were still an item, which Penn recently admitted was a little weird.