Before continuing with this article, please review the preamble included at the beginning of part 1 of this series, "Biblical Dating: How It's Different From Modern Dating." * * * PART 2: Men Initiate, Women Respond ยป One of the big questions hovering around the topic of courtship and dating is the role of friendship.

How intimate of a friendship with someone of the opposite sex is OK? Won't the friendship be ruined if one of us expresses romantic interest and the other doesn't respond favorably?

Our brothers are the male counterparts in us, the ones who also have to approve and like him.

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So is the trend toward intimate friendships between single men and women a good thing? If you haven't read my previous articles on biblical dating, you'll be helped in thinking through this issue by reading "Biblical Dating: How It's Different From Modern Dating." Based on some of the principles found there, let me offer a couple of practical reasons why I believe such friendships to be generally unwise, and then I'll suggest a positive role for friendship among singles in the Christian community.

In this series of articles, I've raised several biblical principles regarding the way we should treat our brothers and sisters in Christ.

Just ask these Redditors, who revealed what it's like to have an ex for a brother- or sister-in-law.

From surprisingly chill outcomes to palpable tension at family events, here are some of the most noteworthy responses.1.

Women who grow up alongside men inherit distinct traits and personality quirks that can only come from years of flipped toilet seats and stepping on Hot Wheels.

While there will always be that special relationship between sister and sister, the one of brother and sister is just as exclusive and binding in its own distinct ways. Because no pair of siblings (not even sister and sister) has ever gone through life without at least one moment when they legitimately plotted the other's death.Basically, the question seems to be how exactly single Christians should relate to members of the opposite sex in that large and awkward zone between "we've never met" and a deliberate dating or courting relationship. I won't repeat the full history lesson here, as several Boundless authors have already discussed it (Joshua Rogers most recently, in his excellent piece "Your Friendgirl Deserves Better").Essentially, the historical reality is that until 30 or 40 years ago, long, intimate friendships between men and women in which each served as the other's emotional confidante, relationship adviser and "best buddy" were far less common than they are today.And if our brother doesn't like him, then he's just not cool.Unluckily, for whomever you're bringing home, the sweet-and-charming act he put on for your parents doesn't work on your brother.With a boy around all the time, it's years of car fights, action movies and punches to the gut. No sibling ever has ever gone through life without feeling that extreme hate for someone that shares the same blood, that looks just like him or her. We didn't take each other's clothes, we took each other's Nintendo controls. Why is he such an important judge of the man you will one day bring home? If your brother thinks he's a douchebag, then don't you begin to think that a little too?